Like Kevin Hart said, women want a provider and a protector. They want someone to make them feel secure financially, emotionally and physically. It isn't a standard that is impossible to meet. It is, however, unrealistic at times. Being a protector physically is a trait not all men carry or can fulfill. Some men are just not able to be the superman or ninja assasin women want.
Some women are attracted to the "bad asses". The men who can kill with their bare hands or the men they can use as a threat when someone annoys them or threaten them. I have to admit it is a good feeling to know that if you cannont protect yourself, your boyfriend/husband can. On the other hand, it isn't right to deny anyone who cannot. If you meet a man who is everything you want and more emotionally and physically, are you going to by pass an opportunity at love because he isn't invincible?
Some women may say yes and some women may say no. It's okay to have standards ladies. When creating theses standards you need to keep in mind that men are human too. They have feelings, insecurities and fears. This goes for the guys as well. Most guys want your typically prissy, semi-emotional woman with perfect dimensions without realizing life happens; gaining weight happens and emotional volcanoes errupt.
Have you ever heard a woman say that she was attracted to a man because he is in tune with his emotions? "He's so sensative you guys. That's so hard to find". It is possible to be in tune with your feelings but remain masculent. I found it very attractive for Kevin Hart to admit his inaccpeabilities. He admits he can provide for his woman but he's not a fighter. It takes a real man to admit that.
Stop living by the fairytales fed to you and start creatin your own.
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