I Am Not A Mind Reader. SPEAK UP !

Joey M.:" Women... I am not a mind reader..... SPEAK UP."

Me: "Those who speak their mind can be lying too but I agree Joey =). Women complain that their standard, wants & needs aren't met yet they never express them."

It may seem as though my post are becoming repetitive but for those who know me personally, know that I take a topic and look at it from all different angles. The particular angle I’m going for now is women and men not stating what makes them happy or sad, the do's and don'ts, expectations and what they feel a good relationship consist of. This is a different angle based on the focus "The Reason Why You're Single".

Personal experiences taught me that I cannot hold a person responsible for not fulfilling my needs and wants, if those needs and wants were not established. You cannot expect a person to automatically know what you are feeling or the road you wish to take in the relationship. This rule applies beyond the romantic scene. It can be applied with family and friends as well. People complain that their relationships are not working out because their significant other cannot please them mentally or sexually. How many of you are taking the time out to acknowledge the problem and attempt to solve it?

We are all human. With that being said our expectations evolve over time. In order to be in a healthy relationship you need to know your partner. Yes, action speaks louder than words. However, your actions are defined by their perception. You may think the silent treatment will force your partner to ask you what is wrong so that you and he/she can discuss the issue at hand BUT your partner could interpret that as you not being in the mood for conversation so they give you your space.

SPEAK UP! I AM NOT A MIND READER. How am I going to know something’s wrong if you don't tell me? How am I going to know you’re interested in taking this friendship farther if you do not tell me? It's impossible. If you really want to be satisfied in life, you need to verbalize. Communication is key. If you don't communicate you’re going to be lonely, unsatisfied, and disappointed..... With yourself!